FATHERHOOD
How might the problems between Okonkwo and his
father, Unoka, influence the later struggles Okonkwo has raising his son Nwoye is
but always to prove he is strong and not weak like his father was. Okonkwo's
father was a lazy man who did nothing for his village. Okonkwo hated how his
father was so weak and does everything he can to be nothing like him. He is hard-working
and shows no weakness or emotional to anyone. Since early
childhood Okonkwo’s embarrassment about his lazy father, Unoka, has made him
want to work even harder and the man he is today. Okonkwo’s is terrified of
being weak or "womanly" like his father. For the reason he behaves meanly
and rough to his son nwoye to make him man up. Okonkwo doesn’t show emotion or
shows he even cares about nwoye. Okonkwo continually beats Nwoye, hoping to change
him and make him a man.”Okonkwo first son nwoye, was twelve years old but was
already causing his father’s great anxiety for his incipient laziness. At any
rate, that was how it looked to his father, and he sought to correct him by constant
nagging and beating”.(Achebe 13).Okonkwo didn’t have a father and son
relationship with nwoye because Okonkwo
believes that Nwoye haves the same genes and weaknesses that his father Unoka haves.
WOMEN’S RIGHT
In traditional ibo culture women have no rights or
liberties. They always end up taking the men side, the men have all the privileges. For example in chapter ten
when the wife family rescued her from her abusive husband, they had a right too
she was constantly getting beaten to the point where the neighbors heard and
even tried to intervene. Also the night when she was ill and he beat her to death.
“Last year my sister was recovering from an illness, he beat her again so that
if the neighbors had not gone in to save her she would have been killed”(Achebe
92) . He was beating her for years and she a right to leave. But in the end
the evil forest took the husband side and all he had to do was bring a pot of wine and beg
his wife for return. He did not get no punishment instead he got a reward, he
got his wife back. His wife had no say in nothing, her family and her husband
was debating where she should go no one really asked her for her opinion.
THE ENDING
Okonkwo commits suicide because he loses his place
as a man in his culture, a place are now by the Church and Christian
values. From the beginning of the story,
he worries about his manhood because of his father who was weak and lazy
because he had no titles. Throughout the whole story, Okonkwo struggles with
the changes taking place in his tribe. He is one of the strongest, most
honorable men, but as the white man begins coming in and other tribal members begins
to change and even his own son who converts to Christianity. Okonkwo can’t
believe what is happening. He sees these
other clansmen as weak, like he saw his father was weak. What Okonkwo fears the
most is weakness. Through everything Okonkwo has tried to remain strong against
all the changes. Okonkwo kills the colonial official in the end, to show his way
show the weakness and white man. No one have his back they all just stand there
shocked. So Okonkwo kills himself rather than to be alive and the white man
take over him, he already knew what was going to happen that’s why he killed
himself. I don’t think it was an admirable choice because in the end he
couldn’t even be buried with I don’t think it was an admirable choice because
in the end he couldn’t even be buried with his clansman. “It is an abomination
for a man to take his own life. It is an offense against the earth, and a man
who commits it will not be buried by his clansman”(Achebe 207) I also believe
for killing himself he showed everyone what he always feared to be and that is
weak.
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